Have you ever found yourself in a relationship that felt safe, steady, and kind: and wondered why it didn't feel like enough? There's this strange discomfort that can happen when someone treats you well. When they're consistent. When they don't raise their voice or disappear for days or make you work for their affection. When conflict doesn't end in slammed doors or the silent treatment. When love just... exists, quietly, without all the drama you've come to associate with "p

Have you ever felt more alive in a relationship that exhausted you than in one that felt steady? Like your nervous system couldn't tell the difference between passion and panic? You're not imagining it. And you're not broken for feeling that way. Many of us learned early that love arrives with drama, with uncertainty, with the desperate need to earn it. We learned that connection means decoding someone's mood, waiting for the other shoe to drop, feeling relief when they final

You know that feeling when someone texts back immediately and your heart does that little flip? When the conversation flows so easily it feels like you've known them forever? When there's that pull: magnetic, undeniable, the kind that makes you check your phone every five minutes? Yeah. That feeling. And you know the other feeling: the one that comes later? When the texts get confusing. When you're analyzing every word, wondering what they meant, trying to figure out if you'r

You felt it, didn't you? That moment when someone walked into the room and the air shifted. The conversation that made hours disappear. The text that made your stomach flip. We call it chemistry. A spark. The thing that just happens when it's supposed to. And when it doesn't happen: or when it fades: we wonder what's wrong. With them. With us. With the whole exhausting process of trying to find someone. But what if the spark was never meant to carry the weight we've been ask

Do you ever feel like your mind never actually stops? Not in the metaphorical, "I'm so busy" kind of way. But in the visceral sense that even when your body sits still, your thoughts are running laps, replaying conversations, rehearsing tomorrow's interactions, scanning for what you might have missed or what could go wrong. You lie down at night and your brain starts its evening performance, the highlight reel of everything you said that landed wrong, the things you forgot to

It's 2 a.m., and you're replaying that conversation from three days ago. Again. The exact words, the tone, what you should have said, what they might have meant, what it all means about you. Your brain won't stop. And somewhere beneath the mental noise, there's a quieter voice asking: Why do I do this to myself? Here's what I want you to know first: Your brain isn't broken. It's not overthinking because you're anxious, or because you're "too much," or because something is fun

Have you ever felt anxious but couldn’t find the words for it? Maybe your chest tightens for no reason, your stomach feels twisted, or you just can’t shake that “on edge” feeling. In the Rio Grande Valley, we often call it nervios , a word passed down by parents and abuelos to describe what we feel when our body is stressed. But nervios  isn’t just “in your head.” It’s your nervous system trying to get your attention. The Body Keeps the Story Anxiety is more than racing thoug

If you live here in the Rio Grande Valley, you know this place carries both beauty and weight. The sound of Spanglish in every conversation, the smell of fajitas on a Sunday, the long drives between McAllen, Edinburg, and Mission. This is home. But home can also hold the pressure to stay strong no matter what. In Hidalgo County, many of us were raised to AGUANTARSE . Keep things together, to work hard, and not talk about pain. That resilience keeps families alive, but it ca

As the holiday season approaches, many of us find ourselves feeling an overwhelming sense of fatigue that seems to go beyond the usual tiredness. This deep emotional exhaustion, often referred to as emotional burnout, can leave us feeling drained, overwhelmed, and unable to cope with the demands of daily life. It’s important to recognize that this isn’t just physical tiredness; it’s a sign of nervous system overload. In this blog post, we’ll explore the nature of emotional bu

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